In honor of my mother, still singing and dancing at 91, here's a Youtube video to commemorate her constant joie de vivre: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7EYAUazLI9k&annotation_id=72265&feature=iv<>/span>
Of all the things we're told by our mothers, there always seem to be particular axioms that are so imbued with eternal wisdom that they must be passed on.
Think of some of the invaluable sayings, mantras, truisms, etc. told to you by your mothers, which have had a positive effect upon your life.
Here are 2 of my mother's:
1."Whenever someone gives you a compliment, just say, "Thank you."
In other words, it's totally unnecessary to deflect the compliment, which:
•Discounts the opinion of the "complimentor"
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•Doesn't allow you to take advantage of basking in the glow of praise and the wonderful feeling it brings. (It IS deserved because this is the assessment of the beholder!)
•Often stops you from readily complimenting others, as you've negated the positive feelings that being recognized engender.
2."Never point out your faults to someone else, as they're most noticeable ONLY to you!"
•It often sounds disingenuous to be too forthcoming in talking about your faults.
•It is off-putting and often makes others want to run for cover if you "spill your guts" too readily.
•It may give you pause to reassess what you have judged to be a fault.
Here are several contributions from readers who were kind enough to share their mothers' maxims.
Ofra K- My mom always says: "Each person has his/her own pleasures."
Meaning things are always a matter of personal taste and opinion and one should not be too harsh and hurried to make judgments.
Anat G.- "My mom used to tell me: "If you didn't use your brain, you'll have to use your legs" (freely translated from French...), meaning that if you
don't think or get organized, then you now have to run or walk more.
This has been so true! The good thing about it: there is another chance,
but it might take longer and more energy!
I sometime use it differently also, instead of using "electronic' ways
of communicating, I take my legs and go to the person I want to talk
to."
Shirley Z- originally conveyed to her by her late mother in Yiddish:
"As someone wishes you a good morning, you wish them a good day".
In other words, as someone behaves toward you, you reciprocate in kind.
O.K, so now that I've shown you mine, feel free to (share) show (email) me yours. Another possibility is to write down and then re-read those adages that are most important and meaningful for you and re-read them throughout the year.
And remember, taking action is the catalyst for change!
