Friday, January 23, 2009

Boosters, Backers and Benefactors

While there has been a seemingly unending list of superlatives to describe the Barak Obama phenomenon, capped by his history making inauguration as President of the United States, I have been particularly struck by his generosity of spirit. He eagerly listens to differing opinions and points of view, extends his hand to former rivals, and continually gives credit to all those who have helped, inspired and nurtured him on his path toward greatness.
As no man (or woman) is an island, consider those who have been your boosters, be they parents, friends, teachers or colleagues who have championed your talents, creativity, and capabilities at different stages of your life. How have they changed your life?

• Personal Cheerleading Squad-consists of those who have unwavering belief in you, be they family, friends, instructors or partners, who have freely given advice, encouragement, ideas and connections.

• Multiple mentors-maximize the knowledge and expertise of patrons who hail from different arenas and fields of interest - know who to go to for each question, idea, task, skill, or different viewpoint for "outside the box" thinking.

• Make a list of all those who have been your tireless aficionados, who backed you, opened doors, opportunities and contacts which have proved invaluable-have you adequately thanked them?

• Who are the prime enthusiasts you now regularly seek out when in need of a pep talk? What is it about these individuals and their advice that keeps you coming back for more?

• What specific counsel/encouragement/challenges made your benefactor's gifts memorable and helpful?

• Take advantage of quotes, books, CDs, affirmations, aphorisms, etc. from motivating, instructive and uplifting leaders, sages, teachers and philosophers for on-going guidance and inspiration.

• In times of transition, surround yourself with steadfast fans, those who optimistically give you a boost whenever they can, whenever they see you're in need.

• Is it time for you to nurture and invest in another's success? What will you offer a "mentee" as their benefactor/guardian/ally, showing them the ropes in their chosen profession, endeavors, or life paths?

And remember, taking action is the catalyst for change!